The beauty in you

Many a times we focus our lives and minds on what is wrong with us, the things that we would have had that we didn't, our imitation and then we end up envying other people ignoring those things in us that make us beautiful, Mandy Hoskins said :
                                                " There is no such thing as ugly, everyone is beautiful in their own way."
  
At first when i saw this quote i was thought he was trying to talk about the physical aspect, until i realized its more than just that. 
I had a friend back then in secondary school, he was nicknamed "hope" because when you think you are looking bad or there was something wrong with your physical structure, you just have to look at him and you see that you are not bad after all, in our ss1 this guy was so much insulted, we call it "yab", he had a very big shapeless head and we would always sing when we saw him, "onye isi ya ka nke mu, le ya ka ọ na-abịa" in English it means, "The person with a bigger head than mine, behold him coming". I could feel he was angry, but it didn't last for long because in our ss2 everybody wanted to be his friend, yea the guy turned out to be super brilliant, while we kept singing our songs, he kept doing his thing, reading and focusing on his future, that same year he made a refrigerator in his cupboard in school and a tractor which was controlled with  a wireless remote. It didnt take time for the school authorities to notice him and before we (the singers) could enter ss3 our "hope" was flying abroad.
Have you been a situation where you think something in you is missing, maybe you dull in class, smaller than others or probably laughed at for some reason. Trust me you are beautiful in your own way. You might be able to heal a broken heart with your words or voice. You might be the one to enhance your nation with your invention. Never thing lightly about yourself.
We sometimes limit ourselves a lot, some will be like, "i know i can sing but i can't sing more than Sinach" who says you can't be the best singer in history...
You have an unlimited God  and we are sufficient in his sufficiency 2 Corinthians 3 :5   
Break the boundaries
You are beautiful just as you are. 

If I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I'd want to pass along to others...
I long for you to know the beauty I see in you, to know that you are enough just as you are, that you are loved beyond measure and capable of anything. I long for you to know that you are an infinite soul here simply to have the human experience, to share your gifts and find your way home to love.
There is no place but right here. There is no time but right now. You chose this brave life, you are home, you have arrived. 
Release the striving for more, YOU are the more.
Release comparing yourself with others, you are not separate from your brothers and sisters, they are you and you are they and you are perfect, whole and complete. You are family. You are ONE.
Release the need to judge and escape this world in favour of some realm you deem better, higher, purer. You came here to be HERE. So be here. Smell every flower, cry every tear, touch the earth, get messy, moved and mad. Feel it all. Embrace it. Love it.
Bathe in the sensations, especially the intense ones, soak it all in, Laugh in the dark times as much as the delights. Don’t fight it. Feel it. It’s all life. It’s all you. It’s all LOVE.
Falling apart is normal. Do not fear it. Feel it. Ride those waves. Allow light, life and love to crack you open. Embrace the unknown. It’s okay not to know all the answers.
Do not hide who you are. Your truth and courage will empower others in ways you cannot imagine. Do not hide the light that can ease the darkness of this world. Shine. Bright. Be brave.
You are loved. You are not alone. You are worthy of every blessing. You will get through the dark times. You are the hero of your own life. Leave it all on the field. Regret nothing. Leave nothing in your heart unsaid, leave no one unloved, especially you.
And then when your day is done and you turn to look back along the path you walked and the people you loved, you will know you did this thing, with bells on, you sucked the juice out of every moment, felt it all, gave it all, loved it all.
I long for you to know the beauty I see in you, to know that you are enough just as you are, that you are loved beyond measure and capable of anything. I long for you to know that you are an infinite soul here simply to have the human experience, to share your gifts and find your way home to love.

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Monday 16 January 2017

The beauty in you

Many a times we focus our lives and minds on what is wrong with us, the things that we would have had that we didn't, our imitation and then we end up envying other people ignoring those things in us that make us beautiful, Mandy Hoskins said :
                                                " There is no such thing as ugly, everyone is beautiful in their own way."
  
At first when i saw this quote i was thought he was trying to talk about the physical aspect, until i realized its more than just that. 
I had a friend back then in secondary school, he was nicknamed "hope" because when you think you are looking bad or there was something wrong with your physical structure, you just have to look at him and you see that you are not bad after all, in our ss1 this guy was so much insulted, we call it "yab", he had a very big shapeless head and we would always sing when we saw him, "onye isi ya ka nke mu, le ya ka ọ na-abịa" in English it means, "The person with a bigger head than mine, behold him coming". I could feel he was angry, but it didn't last for long because in our ss2 everybody wanted to be his friend, yea the guy turned out to be super brilliant, while we kept singing our songs, he kept doing his thing, reading and focusing on his future, that same year he made a refrigerator in his cupboard in school and a tractor which was controlled with  a wireless remote. It didnt take time for the school authorities to notice him and before we (the singers) could enter ss3 our "hope" was flying abroad.
Have you been a situation where you think something in you is missing, maybe you dull in class, smaller than others or probably laughed at for some reason. Trust me you are beautiful in your own way. You might be able to heal a broken heart with your words or voice. You might be the one to enhance your nation with your invention. Never thing lightly about yourself.
We sometimes limit ourselves a lot, some will be like, "i know i can sing but i can't sing more than Sinach" who says you can't be the best singer in history...
You have an unlimited God  and we are sufficient in his sufficiency 2 Corinthians 3 :5   
Break the boundaries
You are beautiful just as you are. 

If I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I'd want to pass along to others...
I long for you to know the beauty I see in you, to know that you are enough just as you are, that you are loved beyond measure and capable of anything. I long for you to know that you are an infinite soul here simply to have the human experience, to share your gifts and find your way home to love.
There is no place but right here. There is no time but right now. You chose this brave life, you are home, you have arrived. 
Release the striving for more, YOU are the more.
Release comparing yourself with others, you are not separate from your brothers and sisters, they are you and you are they and you are perfect, whole and complete. You are family. You are ONE.
Release the need to judge and escape this world in favour of some realm you deem better, higher, purer. You came here to be HERE. So be here. Smell every flower, cry every tear, touch the earth, get messy, moved and mad. Feel it all. Embrace it. Love it.
Bathe in the sensations, especially the intense ones, soak it all in, Laugh in the dark times as much as the delights. Don’t fight it. Feel it. It’s all life. It’s all you. It’s all LOVE.
Falling apart is normal. Do not fear it. Feel it. Ride those waves. Allow light, life and love to crack you open. Embrace the unknown. It’s okay not to know all the answers.
Do not hide who you are. Your truth and courage will empower others in ways you cannot imagine. Do not hide the light that can ease the darkness of this world. Shine. Bright. Be brave.
You are loved. You are not alone. You are worthy of every blessing. You will get through the dark times. You are the hero of your own life. Leave it all on the field. Regret nothing. Leave nothing in your heart unsaid, leave no one unloved, especially you.
And then when your day is done and you turn to look back along the path you walked and the people you loved, you will know you did this thing, with bells on, you sucked the juice out of every moment, felt it all, gave it all, loved it all.
I long for you to know the beauty I see in you, to know that you are enough just as you are, that you are loved beyond measure and capable of anything. I long for you to know that you are an infinite soul here simply to have the human experience, to share your gifts and find your way home to love.

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