(LADIES) WHY YOU SHOULD CHANGE YOUR POSTS ON SOCIAL MEDIA

You bought some cute little shorts, they make your butt look big and they look nice on you and they don’t cover too much of your butt, so take pictures and post them online, because you want your followers to see you in them.

You've been working out, living that squat life and making sure your body is right. When you look in the mirror, it’s evident you got it, so you take a bunch of pictures just so your followers can feel you too.

You don’t see anything wrong with displaying your body online, because it’s normal, everyone does it, everyone shows off their tits and butt right? It’s body positive, when you love the way you look you show others so they can love it too right?

Well

You’re adding yourself to the population of females who use the Internet to get the attention that they don’t get in real life. The group of females who compliment a man’s hormones by putting their body on display when bored. A list of females who are searching for love in the wrong places.

As a man, who plans on marrying a good God-fearing woman one day, that’s the last thing I want to see. That’s the last thing I want my nieces and nephews to see. I don’t want my future daughter to do the same, portraying herself in the same manner.

Why is it bad? Well if I have to explain to you why it’s bad, we’re in trouble, but here it is…

It’s degrading:
You’re advertising yourself a piece is meat and you’re showing people you have no self respect. You, as someone who’s doing it, may not see it as degrading, but trust me people with morals will tell you differently. You’re presenting yourself as bait for dogs. Men who look for easy women, something to poke. It’s not that bad? Yes it is, No man look at a half-naked picture and say dang ” I would marry her, because she is a good woman”, “I would hit that,” or “I can get that” is usually what goes on in their thoughts. You might say well the problem is with him, he should definitely practice self-control but it’s hard for many men when temptation is there and not only that some of the temptations welcome him to give into it. There’s an issue on both sides.

It sends out the wrong message:
Putting yourself out like that doesn't give out a good message at all. It’s telling people that you’re easy and that you’re fine with being a product of sex and viewed by perverts. It’s taking away your value and branding you as “trashy”. Somehow along the way the things women used to wear in private for their husband is what they wear for Instagram and Facebook likes. You may say, “Well it’s not my fault how they interpret it”. That’s like posing for playboy magazine and expecting the men who see it to see you in the same light as Michelle Obama. You may be the next Michelle Obama, but what the way you’re advertising yourself is making you the center of many men’s filthy imagination. It’s not your intentions most of the time, it’s what you present.

It’s looking for love and attention in all the wrong places:
Here’s a generalization that holds some truth. “You will not find too many women who were raised right by mothers that are good examples, or fathers who were present in their life doing these things. They know better than that and do better than that. Most of the women you see doing those things are women who were misguided, didn't receive proper attention and love in their early age.
Some say “I don’t do it for attention”, yes you do. Why else? Because you love yourself? Well if you did love yourself you wouldn't do that and you would stare at the mirror and tell yourself you love yourself. You don’t even look at your own pictures on line you posted it for others to see. You seem to post revealing pictures for others to accept it and agree with you the way you see yourself and for others to compliment and help you boost your confidence – that is looking for attention.

I respect everyone – me saying I don’t respect girls with half naked pictures online is a lie, but I will say it’s hard for people in general to show respect to someone who doesn't respect themselves. Respect has to be earned but is usually given freely by those who do have self-respect. Presenting yourself as someone who isn't worthy of love and to be treated like queen is selling yourself short. Men want women with class; they may entertain the ladies showing it all, but that’s not what they want to take home to mom. We don’t like what everyone else has seen and possibly what everyone had before us. Respect yourself ladies, it will attract the right things and the right man.